| Reality |
Communication |
Tone 4 Search for different viewpoints and changes in reality in order to broaden own
reality — complete flexibility in understanding, relating and
evaluating different realities
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Ability to communicate completely, withholding nothing; ability to create and construct through conversation |
3.5 Ability to understand,
relate and evaluate reality, regardless of change or
difference in viewpoint, moderate flexibility in realities brought
to view without eager searchfor new ones
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Swift exchange of deep-seated, deeply felt beliefs and ideas |
Attempts to reconcile own
reality with conflicting reality—limited flexibility
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Tentative expression of limited number of personal beliefs and ideas |
Tone 3 Awareness of possible validity
of different reality (viewpoint without relating it to
own reality)
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Casual exchange of superficial chatter |
| 2.5 Indifference to conflicting reality—"Maybe —who
cares?" attitude |
Indifference to communication of others—"Let's not argue about it" attitude—dismissal of communication—if toward environment, not
trying to get perceptics clear
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| Refusal to match two realities, rejection of conflicting reality "So what?" attitude |
Refusal to accept communication of other person (or environment) — turning to
other sources of communication
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Tone 2 Verbal doubt — defence of own reality, attempts to undermine others
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Indirect pot-shooting, nagging,
nasty cracks, invalidating other person or situation |
1.5 Destruction of opposing reality, wrecking or changing it, knocking out props from
other person's reality — "You're
wrong!" attitude. If reality is
environmental, destruction is
accomplished only through
change
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Shutting off other person's communication, destruction of
it — "Shut up!" "Drop it!" |
Doubt of opposing reality, non-verbal disbelief, refusal to accept disbelief, refusal to accept conflicting reality without trying to fight back
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Stubborn silence, sulking, refusal to communicate further, rejection of attempted communication by others |
| Tone 1 Doubt of own reality — insecurity; attempts to gain reassurance; if reality is environmental — appeasement of gods or elements |
Lying to avoid real communication; can take the form of pretended agreement, flattery or verbal appeasements; or simply a false picture of person's feelings and ideas; false facade, articial personality
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| 0.5 Shame, anxiety, strong doubt of own reality with consequent inability to act within it, must be told what to do if person is to act at all, afraid to act himself since he has no way to assess consequences |
Evasiveness to avoid communication; hiding person's own thoughts and feelings superficial communication built on accepted standards without relation to person's real feelings; or shizoid secrecy
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Complete withdrawal from conflicting reality; refusal to test own reality against conflicting one; Locked in own rigid reality — psychotic
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Inability to communicate, completely unresponsive |
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Tone 0 |
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